We all remember the passion that we had for the one we love or were interested in, those unfulfilled sexual energy emotions. We were once passionate and energized. We woke up thinking about a special person and we fell asleep feeling the same way. We were consumed with passion and love thoughts. Years, went by and we now have families, careers, and other obligations that seem to take precedence, to the point that you no longer have passionate love with your partner. Psychologists believe that real passion has more to do with the emotional bond that we share with our partners, rather than inventing more sexual positions. They are not discounting making sex more fun, just that together, sex and romance can bring back those passionate moments we experienced when we were younger. Putting passion back into lovemaking is achieved more from a sense of being wholly bonded to our partners.
Here are some tips in how to put passion back into lovemaking:
Passion and Lovemaking Tips
1. Plan on doing more things together, rather than apart. Find out what your partner likes to do and pursue that hobby together, taking turns for each partner’s interest. Getting to know each other’s hobby interests only enhances your knowledge of a new subject and it will enable a closeness that wasn’t there before. Even consider exercising together, like walking and holding each others hands.
2. Plan on surprising your partner with more attentive hugs, kisses, and caresses. Whenever you both are together for an extended amount of time and you have settled into a routine, surprise your partner suddenly by coming up behind them and nibble their ear, touch their arm and bring them in for a hug. This unexpected affection can make your lovemaking a more passionate experience and something that you will want to continue.
3. Turn lovemaking into a game. Men and women, have at one time or another, fantasized about sex. Communicate with your partner and share with them your sexual fantasy. Even though you may feel silly talking about it, you would be surprised to find out that your partner also has a fantasy. Choose a fantasy and act it out. Remember to keep it playful and not serious. Explore different sexual roles and choose a day when you both will engage in this sexy, playful, and exhilarating fantasy game.
4. Complement each other at least once every day. When you first began dating, you both complemented each other daily. Time does not, nor should it, affect admiring things about your partner. Men should tell their women they like that color blouse or dress on them, that they like their hair, etc. Women should tell their men that they also look good. These emotions will spill over into your lovemaking events because your partner makes you feel good about yourself and there is nothing better than confidence in lovemaking.
5. If you are a couple with children, plan nights or weekends away with one another. Book a hotel room every once in a while for a leisurely lovemaking experience, even if you don’t do anything other than cuddle with each other and talk. But if you are more adventurous, a nearby hotel room with dinner and each other, is just the battery recharge you need to keep passion a part of your lovemaking.
6. Keep yourselves fit. It is hard to keep passion in your lovemaking sessions, if you don’t feel your best. Just exercising 15 minutes a day, helps men and women to get fit and to remain healthy, as well as helping with body confidence, so that when you get undressed, you can show your partner, your sexiness. Exercise also helps to clear your mind and to think more clearly about how you can continue to keep passion into your lovemaking.
Conclusion
Lovemaking is more than just sex between two people, it is a way to communicate. If passion is not a part of your daily sex life, then neither of you are communicating very well. Life in general requires a weekly assessment and a healthy sex life requires the same. Look back over any given week and ask yourselves if you even touched your partner or gave them an encouraging and loving comment. So, what is the secret to keeping passion a part of your lovemaking energy, it is as simple as this, or it’s as hard as you make it – the answer is that you have to choose to keep passion alive! Yes, like all things done well, even your love life requires a little work and a little imagination, but it is all worth while.
